tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post4380279805543196167..comments2023-10-16T12:01:24.373+02:00Comments on Peanut's Journey: Fighting the fight....Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06303045874725602201noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-31984722160237362262008-04-04T04:36:00.000+02:002008-04-04T04:36:00.000+02:00i know this sounds extremely shitty, but honestly ...i know this sounds extremely shitty, but honestly the reason i am a terrible blogger/commenter these days is NOT that i've moved on. i actually spend more time than you'd think wishing i had a free moment to check in on you. having a baby has not changed how i feel about infertility, blogging, or my dear blogfriends. she has simply eaten all my time.<BR/><BR/>thinking of you.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587725139301198392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-23805882921848419522008-03-26T18:28:00.000+02:002008-03-26T18:28:00.000+02:00I am right with you Tam, those feelings of being l...I am right with you Tam, those feelings of being left behind, they are there right now for me.<BR/><BR/>I think it has hit a few of us recently, Carrie, Foreverhopeful, JJ, we all feel the same. <BR/><BR/>I just hope we all make it to the other side, in one piece, physically and emotionally.<BR/><BR/>As I said to Foreverhopeful in a similar comment, I buy into the person not their situation, so I'll be here for you whatever the weather!Beckshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01893937400698223343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-63257175203608459322008-03-25T13:06:00.000+02:002008-03-25T13:06:00.000+02:00Can you feel left behind before you even start? Co...Can you feel left behind before you even start? Cos that is how I feel sometimes, I have not even crossed that IVF start line but already I am terrified of being left behind... <BR/><BR/>Cannot wait for you to be a Mom my friend! CANNOT wait!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-92138753695094749202008-03-25T04:12:00.000+02:002008-03-25T04:12:00.000+02:00Tam, I hope you truly, deep down, in your heart, K...Tam, I hope you truly, deep down, in your heart, KNOW I'm still here for you and that I always will be. I believe that you too will cross over to this "other side" and I pray all the time that it happens so very soon. Always your friend, me xxxJWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07000365791603789983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-34654717450588214702008-03-24T21:30:00.000+02:002008-03-24T21:30:00.000+02:00Hi Tam. I've been feeling the exact same way. So...Hi Tam. I've been feeling the exact same way. So many people have moved on and I've been feeling lonely in blogland. But I realized today that we are not alone and there are still many of us fighting. I do check on you often as well and I hope you know I'm here supporting you whatever your next step is. I'm glad you have found such peace and I know that feeling of being scared to start again. I still feel terrified all the time.One Viewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16092873478760754270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-73706162855025603782008-03-22T21:55:00.000+02:002008-03-22T21:55:00.000+02:00Tam, I'm grateful for the peaceful place you're in...Tam, I'm grateful for the peaceful place you're in now. Please know that I will always check in on you even if it's too hard for you to check in on me. Cycle sistas for life!!!annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18358874898043361019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-59953362836411743752008-03-22T19:23:00.000+02:002008-03-22T19:23:00.000+02:00I so understand the feeling of being left behind. ...I so understand the feeling of being left behind. It is so bittersweet every time a blogger gets a BFP. I am finding it really difficult too right now. <BR/>I am so glad to hear that you feel more peaceful at the moment, I wish I could get to that place somehow. This is all tearing me apart and I am so scared to stop or go on. It is an awful position to be in. I am happy that you and Frank are connecting, relationships suffer such stress.<BR/>I hope we both get to move on soon, this can't last forever surely?Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15454167446758199344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-89660977628754840362008-03-22T02:20:00.000+02:002008-03-22T02:20:00.000+02:00I have definitely not deserted you. I check multi...I have definitely not deserted you. I check multiple times a week to see if you've posted. I'm lazy and mostly read through bloglines, but that doesn't work with password protected sites so I still come over here through the link on my blog.<BR/><BR/>I think about you all the time. As I'm busy lamenting all of my failed IVF cycles, I cannot forget my very first true cycle sister. Through all of my treatments, I had not had anyone go through it with the EXACT same timing. As I sit here, 8 weeks away from hopefully meeting my son, I can't help but feel dreadfully sad that I'm not celebrating with you yet.<BR/><BR/>I have hope, your time will come. I just wish it was NOW. Right now.<BR/><BR/>I admire your positive attitude, and I covet your closeness with Frank. Kevin and I have a lot of work to do after this baby comes, all the stress of fertility treatments, pregnancies and miscarriages has really taken a toll on us.<BR/><BR/>There is nothing you or JJ could say that would offend me. (Unless, of course, you said something like, "That LEAH! She's a real shit head. She's got ugly hair and I think her breath smells bad too.") I watched so, so many people "cross over" to the other side in my 3+ years of trying and waiting, and I felt jealous and left behind every time. It's a natural feeling, it just makes me sad that it needs to happen at all.<BR/><BR/>I will continue to pray for you. For your strength, for your happiness, and for the fulfillment of your family dreams. I wish we didn't live so far away, I'd drive over right now and give you a giant hug. xoxoLeahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11037485291342703216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-88070363292049366422008-03-20T19:51:00.000+02:002008-03-20T19:51:00.000+02:00You know Im always here for you--no matter how lon...You know Im always here for you--no matter how long the journey takes!JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18027548058304720360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2527673312539836004.post-65282045455160272802008-03-20T19:33:00.000+02:002008-03-20T19:33:00.000+02:00Hugs my dear, just hugs from me, XXX.Hugs my dear, just hugs from me, XXX.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com